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Travelling with Baby: How to make it easier

General advice that’s proved helpful has been to travel whilst they’re ready for a nap. That works in all situations I’ve found bar one : the train.

Aeroplane – take ear defenders and BF as you take off. Check out if the airport has a play area for kids for toddlers upwards. Take a carrier if you can. Book an aisle seat if you can for the extra room.

Train – still working this one out… but other than lots of toys, books and food, I have no other miracles to make this easier. You can prearranged assistance where someone will help you get your luggage on to a train.

Taxi – sit at the back to keep the little one entertained.
Car Journeys – map out where your going to stop, eat and rest – especially the latter every two hours. Give toys & books, prepare to have music or story CDs on the player for most of the journey. 

If you have any helpful tips don’t hesitate to share in the comments section x

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Breastfeeding – Ending Our Journey: Day 13

Officially I would say we are at the end of our bf journey. He barely asks for Boobie and if he does it’s not a demand for comfort. More of a fondness of a well thought of friend.

So now we have moved on to stage two of our plan… ending co sleeping. As I write this it’s 4.30am and he’s sleeping next to me seeking comfort now and again. We started three days ago… we’ll keep a note of that too.

Boobs still have a little milk in them, but nothing note worthy. No pain or discomfort now not that there was much any way.

Thank you for following our journey. We hope it helps you too if you’re contemplating starting yours.

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Fire Safety

The Grenfell Tower fire is an atrocity which is sitting deeply and uncomfortably in our hearts. So many lives were lost, including babies. So I wanted to help raise awareness of steps you can take to help your family.

If you are not confident or had training to deal with a fire, using appropriate fire safety equipment- leave the fire alone! Instead leave the building and raise the alarm!

Equipment that can help, fire extinguishers and a fire blanket.

You should also learn first aid for both adults and kids. So if there was an incident you could help deal with shock and any initial injuries.

Make sure you have the appropriate number of smoke detectors and fire alarms that are in good working order. Test them regularly in accordance with the manufacturers instructions.

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Staying Safe in Summer Sun

Looks like Summer is finally here Everyone!

Still we need to take care in the heat especially if like us you rarely see heat like this!

Did you know in the summer between 11am and 3pm, the sun is at its strongest? 

Babies, young children, pregnant ladies and the elderly can become very ill during very hot weather. Their health can be seriously affected by dehydration, heat exhaustion, heatstroke and sunburn.
Try these tips for keeping you and Baby healthy in the heat.

Try to keep your baby cool and protect them from the sun.

Babies less than six months old should be kept out of direct sunlight. Older infants should also be kept out of the sun as much as possible.

When out, attach a parasol or sunshade to your baby’s pushchair to keep them out of direct sunlight. But do not cover them or their car seats with a blanket or Muslin as these can trap the heat and cause your little ones to get ill.

Apply a sunscreen with a sun protection factor (SPF) of at least 15 to your baby’s skin every couple of hours. Apply the suncream regularly, particularly if your child is in and out of the sea or paddling pool. 

Pop on a sunhat with either a wide brim or a long flap at the back, to protect the neck from the sun.

Avoid dehydration by drinking plenty of fluids or having ice lollies. So make sure you carry water for yourself and everyone in the family. Plenty of fruit and salad will also help keep their fluid levels up.

Did you know, if you’re breastfeeding your baby, you don’t need to give them water as well as breast milk. Your breastmikk changes consistently to adapt to the needs of baby. But you should offer feeds more than usual.  

If you’re bottle feeding, as well as their usual milk feeds, you can give your baby cooled boiled water throughout the day. If your baby wakes at night, they’ll probably want milk. If they’ve had their usual milk feeds, try cooled boiled water as well. 

Playing in a paddling pool is a good way of keeping babies and children cool. Keep the pool in the shade.   

A cool bath before bedtime can also help at night. Check out what they should wear tonne using the picture in our useful photo album

You can keep rooms cool during the day by closing blinds or curtains. You can also use a fan to circulate the air in the room.  

A room thermometer will help you monitor the temperature of your room. Your baby will sleep most comfortably when their room is between 16C (61F) and 20C (68F).

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After Maternity Leave: 6 months later

I have found returning to work so hard as many of you will. It’s an agonizing decision whether to leave your career to be a stay at home mum (SAHM) or try to have it all whether party time or full time.

I went back part time, to a different role due to having had an extended maternity leave. I thought it would be good gave plenty of notice but alas things didn’t turn out quite as planned…

A Positive Performance Appraisal was lovely this past week especially as it included an apology for not having had a plan in place for my return to work, no training given relating to the new role etc… any wonder why I’ve been chomping at the bit etc

Then in this time there were the bitchy comments of staff and non communications, definitely made some days harder than others. See and that’s without the hormones and achy breasts or other worries of being a good parent.

Before I went on maternity leave I didn’t have the best experience either I felt stressed due to undue comments of HR staff discussing the return of another person from maternity leave, and just how difficult both they and the MP planned to make it. I was 6 weeks pregnant at the time and it ruined the rest of my pregnancy it haunted my every decision. I didn’t want to lose my job I wanted to show them I could do it all. It made me sick.

During those difficult times I held on to my faith, tried to remain calm and professional albeit sometimes I wish I had the confidence to call people out on their horrid ways.

I found solice looking into areas of other interest. I even found a great website to read where other women shared their stories of returning to the office post baby.

If you find yourself unhappy having returned to work know that you can find happiness outside of work, at home within yourself again. Just do some soul searching & an ear to lean on.

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Breastfeeding – Ending Our Journey: Day 7

I’ve not posted for a few days because there wasn’t much to update you all on.

Little man is rarely asking for booby out right. Once a day if at all and he’s no longer helping himself or rummaging around my tops.

However the nights have been more restless. So much so I thought he might have an ear ache. Docs confirmed there’s nothing wrong they restlessness and calling out for MUMMY is BF related. So I’ll continue to comfort him with cuddles as we co sleep.

Oh and Daddy is getting up to make sippy cups of warmed milk… so no ending the BF journey does not mean your little one will sleep through the night. Myth busted!

How do I feel now it’s been a week? I feel sad it’s coming to an end. It was a real struggle in the beginning like the hardest soul crushing experience I ever made was to bf my little boy but it’s my biggest and proudest achievement. I am so proud we did it for over a year. I am also relieved to stop as well because I needed to get some me time back – in the form of sleep. It’s been well over two years I’ve had a full nights sleep due to pregnancy related health issues.

So if you’re thinking about starting your BF journey – it’s amazing! Do it if you can. We’ve enjoyed some really amazing moments and it helped us immensely when bottle feeding wasn’t working for us.

Boob wise – there’s literally little to no milk. I just express once a day. No engorgement or anything.

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Breastfeeding – Ending Our Journey: Day 4 

No more engorgement, barely anything in the breasts and definitely no pain.

I’ve done this without drugs nor any cabbage leaves (pukes!).

Speaking of puking … last night our little monkey did just that after having engorged himself on milk. It brings back memories of our disastrous bottle feeding days…

Not sure why we’ve ended back there but hopefully we can continue to move forward.

He’s not asking for booby anymore which makes me feel sad. And last night he woke up at 3 looking for milk for the first time. Although he has been getting up at 4 when we would also have a feed. Might have to have a sippy cup at the ready.

He’s headed to bed just fine albeit our bed. With cuddles until he closed his eyes. 

Fingers crossed as Night 5: it will be uneventful 

I will summarize my feelings about this process once it’s over btw x